A woman knows exactly what accessories, clothes and shoes will impress any man. Thinks he knows. Tricks designed to arouse interest in the stronger sex often work exactly the opposite. You need to know the enemy by sight - in this article, the conversation will focus on 6 items of women's wardrobe, which, rather, do not attract HIM, but scare away.
Contrary to the prevailing stereotypes, half of the "win-win bows" and "enticing little things" are indifferent at best to the majority of the brutal sex. At worst, it can alienate a worthy applicant, cause bewilderment in a young man or husband. So, the goal has been set: to debunk the myths about items of women's wardrobe that are "attractive" for men.
The first myth. "Louboutins" fight on the spot
The film industry has long ago introduced into the minds of the fair sex the myth that a woman with high heels (and now, in addition to them, a platform) is extremely attractive and desirable. After all, men, having come to a nightclub, with bated breath, watch the movements of a strip dancer in high heels - which means that we need to comply!
In fact, any adequate man is well aware of the difference between the image of a professional stripper and the appearance of his beloved woman. A girl performing acrobatic stunts on a pole looks organically in shoes with a 20-centimeter heel and a 5-centimeter platform, but her beloved and only one walking in such shoes on uneven asphalt is a bit awkward sight. Men, answering the question which shoes they like best on a woman's leg, for the most part "voted" for "light shoes with medium heels", in which the gait is "light and sporty." “Ballet shoes are better than hooves,” summed up the brutals.
The second myth. Leather leggings are the bomb
Several years ago, a real "epidemic" of leggings began. Girls and grandmothers, skinny and crumpets, athletes, athletes and sumo wrestlers - all began to demonstrate "gluteal anatomy". And the men, in turn, were generous with comments, which finally convinced the beautiful ladies: leggings are a bomb for men's eyes!
Why, then, when asked about “the most repulsive items of women's wardrobe,” several people at once, without hesitation, blurted out: “Oh-oh-oh! Not leggings! Horror!"? The terrible truth was announced by Alexander Sergeevich Pushkin: "only hardly // You will find a whole in Russia // Three pairs of slender female legs." The genius, of course, is rude, but in some ways he is right: even professional athletes without a single extra gram of weight do not always have the ideal shape of their legs. But the knitted garment, tight-fitting thighs, also visually enlarges us by at least one size! As a result, the bomb is not leggings, but … ourselves in these leggings.
The third myth. Tight clothes are seductive
There is a suspicion that the carriers of myths No. 2 and No. 3 are the same people. Although, if we are not talking about the legs specifically, there can no longer be a categorical "no!" A categorical “no” should be said to clothing (dress or ensemble of “top” and “bottom”), tightly fitting all “protruding forms”.
The golden rule of good taste: if the “top” (part of the dress, blouse, etc.) emphasizes the shape, the “bottom” should be free. And vice versa. There is nothing shameful if the "strong side" of the figure is favorably emphasized with tight-fitting clothing. But to be in the form of a sausage and expect the enthusiastic cries of men is not worth it. In addition, the "fitted" lady can subconsciously cause them to associate with the girl from the "escort service" and fear that they will have to spend money.
The fourth myth. The "grid" will lure HIM in the network
Twenty years ago, a tight-fitting "mesh" blouse, displaying a black bra, as well as anatomical charms, was incredibly popular among women of various weight categories. Paradoxically, such black transparent blouses were especially loved by ladies of "Rodin" sizes. It was assumed that this wardrobe item is a highlight for any "bow": the "net" was worn both in a restaurant and on a visit, and even to work under a jacket.
However, in the eyes of the majority of men, a seductive "net" is associated with the dress code of ladies who provide certain services and prefer to immediately show the product with their face. "Professional" outfit on a lady interested in a man is alarming. "O! Like in the movie "Intergirl"!.. Is she going to show everyone her body?.. Or maybe it is better to cover these folds on the stomach? - something like this, according to male respondents, they think when they see a pretty woman on "vulgar tights." But even if you are indifferent to the opinion of these "two-faced moralists" (he condemns, but still stares!), Leave your body the right not to be a target for those who solve problems with self-esteem, sarcastically commenting on the physique of others.
The fifth myth. Leopard print - "wild splendor"
By the way, this myth was made fun of by the military respondents. When asked what would probably alienate them in the appearance of a woman, the defenders of the Fatherland almost unanimously voted against the "leopard": "Horror!", "Why did they decide that it was sexy?" … But it is precisely because of the associations with wild nature (hence, unbridled passion and all that …) women put on the “total leopard”.
A leopard print on any wardrobe item looks clumsy and a little vulgar (once again, the "uniform" of the representatives of the ancient profession comes to mind). In the modern fashion space, this print is kitsch, which is appropriate only on the catwalk. At the same time, there is absolutely no need to deny yourself the pleasure of playing with fashionable stamps: "leopard" as a detail, a small accent is quite suitable for both a casual look and an evening dress.
Sixth myth. The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo is awesome
Dudki. When a man sees a tattoo on a woman’s body, he has several alarming versions: didn’t hesitate, didn’t go on a long voyage … We will keep silent about the rest for reasons of political correctness. In a word, let it be a fire-breathing monster on the back or ankle, as well as hearts, birds, roses, but sometimes only in the form of a print on clothes or underwear.
How improperly selected jewelry and bijouterie can harm and spoil even the most successful dress or suit, you can learn from the article How not to overdo it with decorations and turn into a sparkling magpie.